A few nights ago, I had a dream. I don't remember the full details of what happened (sadly enough), but I vividly remember who was in it: a girl. She was around my age, thin, with blonde hair pulled back into a ponytail. She had green eyes and what I believe to be a German accent, and she was wearing a white tank top and jean shorts. Out of what I can remember from the dream, I remember we were dating as I recall laying on my couch, her coming over and laying on top of me, and we just lay there for awhile. It was bliss.
Now, don't get me wrong: I have dreams about women all the time (a-boo hoo hoo), but this was different for quite a few reasons. One, all my dreams except this one have either been about a girl who I had a crush on, or a faceless idea of a girl. I have never met anyone like who I dreamed about, and like I said earlier, I could remember everything about her.
Two, this girl was peculiar in that she didn't really match any profile of what I thought I wanted physically in a girlfriend, and yet I was extremely attracted to her.
Three, usually I forget these dreams and move on with my life, but for some reason, my psyche will not allow me to forget this girl. I have no idea who she is or even if she exists, but my subconcious keeps telling me not to forget her.
Four, like I said, my subconcious won't let me forget her, and it keeps telling me that I should follow any leads I can get. Now, this is not the subconcious that I actively control. This is the subconcious that operates outside my control (you know how it is, right guys? I can't remember the word for it. Is the word subconcious? I don't know anymore).
All that being said, I'm still extremely skeptical. Don't get me wrong, I'm always one for a good paranormal story, but dreaming about a girl who HAPPENS to exist and who HAPPENS to maybe have also had that dream and who HAPPENS to be single. And even if all that was true, there wouldn't be any guarantee that I would fall in love with her. However, I am also curious, and I do have a slight lead (my friend Mykal told me that there was a girl who fit the description working in a funnel cake booth in my downtown area), but I don't know if I should even bother with it. I told a few of my closest friends, and they told me just to forget it, but...I don't know.
What do you guys think? Do you think that I'm unactively reading too much into a dream and should see a psychiatrist or someone to get myself to forget? Should I follow my friends lead and possibly embarrass myself in front of a complete stranger, or maybe gain a girlfriend? Do any of you have any leads? Am I crazy? Speak!
LngTankerforjoo
I think You should ignore it, Don't let yourself get bogged down in this especially when it's something you really don't trust yourself.